Are You Really Listening?
It is easy to ask questions of people without waiting for a response. I know I have done this when I am in a hurry. “Hi. How are you? How is your ill mother? Are you traveling this holiday?” Sometimes we are asking questions just as a way of saying hello as we are...
Look for Humor Amidst Polarization
“I think the next best thing to solving a problem is finding some humor in it.”— Frank A. Clark A client told me how angry he was with his long-time business partner. “How can he be so stupid?” The partners were disagreeing again about something they...
We All Want to be Respected
“One of the most sincere forms of respect is actually listening to what another has to say.”—Bryant H. McGill We each assume we know what respect is, based on our personal experiences. Caregivers and teachers spend a lot of time emphasizing signs of respect. I often...
Being Authentic is Key to Connecting with Others
Excerpted from: OASIS Conversations: Leading with and Open Mindset to Maximize Potential This is the third in a series of tips for more effective communication. Focus on the goal of being authentic and true to yourself in your interactions while looking for win-win...About the Author
Ann Van Eron, Ph.D., MCC is founder and principal of Potentials, a global coaching and organization development consulting firm with experience coaching leaders and teams all over the world for over twenty-five years. She is certified as a Master Coach and has a doctorate in Organization Psychology from Columbia University.
Her new book, OASIS Conversations: Leading with and Open Mindset to Maximize Potential is available at AMAZON >>